where is my focus? where am i placing the most emphasis?

"As parents, we have been commanded to teach our children
'to understand the doctrine of . . . faith in Christ the Son of the living God' (D&C 68:25)
...faith is truly a spiritual gift worthy of our utmost efforts.
We can give our children education, lessons,
athletics, the arts, and material possessions,
but if we do not give them faith in Christ,
we have given little."

Elder Kevin W. Pearson of the Seventy

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what do i focus on giving my children?
of all the opportunities and "things" i can offer my children,
into which ones do i exert the most energy and drive?