Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts

Saturday, January 30, 2010

as daughters of God, our nature is divine

A few Sundays ago I gave the lesson in our Young Women meeting. Teaching and I have a love/hate relationship. I relish the opportunity to study a topic in detail, learning new things about my assignment as well as myself. However, I am very uncomfortable teaching these teenage girls. I am not being humble, but rather very honest when I say that I am not a "good" teacher. I do enough to fumble my way through my forty minutes of instruction (I use that word lightly) but I talk too much, and yet don't ever seem to be able to really get across the message I feel in my heart. Thankfully the young women and YW leaders put up with me, and for their sakes I am glad I do not have to teach more than once every few months! I do however want to blog a bit (for my own recollection) about that particular lesson and the message that is so appropriate for our times.
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The idea of the lesson was that keeping the commandments helps us reach our full potential as daughters of God, thus fulfilling our roles in the Lord's Plan of Happiness. But what I got most out of it was the definitions of our "Divine Roles". As women, literally spirit daughters of our Heavenly Father, we have divinely appointed roles that must be fulfilled to ensure the success of Heavenly Father's plan of happiness.
Those roles are for us to become:

Wives & Equal Partners with an Eternal Companion

Loving Mothers

Teacers to our families and all those around us

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To me the definition of divine means "of an eternal nature"--something that started before I came to earth and something that will continue on after our time in mortality has ended. Divine also means to me that it originated with Someone greater than myself, Someone of Divinity. So how do these definitions signify our Divine Roles? It tells me that there are wonderful things we can do in this life. As women in the year 2010 there are opportunities our predecessors could only have dreamed about. Practically nothing, no dream, no goal, is unobtainable, so long as we are willing to work hard and sacrifice. And I'm all for it--worthy goals and ambitions. Why shouldn't we reach high and accomplish much? But we must not lose sight of those roles that have an eternal nature. Our Divine Roles not only complete the Lord's Plan, but ultimately are what will bring us the most happiness. Our Heavenly Father loves us and wants good things for us. It would only make sense that He would create roles for women that would enhance their lives, make them better. Satan knows this, and since he wants to make everyone as miserable as himself, and since his greatest desire is also to thwart a plan centered on bringing souls to Christ, he knows that if he can destroy the far-reaching influence and power that comes through a righteous woman, of course that will be a target upon which he places great emphasis. Think about it--how much of the world today (society, media, etc) would have you believe that the role of motherhood, the role of creating a home, of being a loyal & devoted wife, is weak, old-fashioned and out-of-date? Where do you think the root of these ideas and opinions stems from? Or perhaps a better question is from whom?
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We should strive to do great things in this life, but as we do so, let us not forget that the greatest roles we can fulfill are roles of divinity and accompany eternal blessings, and that fighting for them, fighting to be great within them, are the most worthy strivings of all.

-(Painting by Mary Cassatt, "Breakfast in Bed")

Hope Sig1

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

The Kremin Family's "Surprise-Birthday Girls Night [weekend] Out"!

i love the women in my family.
thanks for a memorable and amusing weekend!
for those that could not attend,
your absence was definitely felt.
see you next year, the weekend after general conference.
get it on your calendars!

Last weekend many of the Kremin women gathered together in the name of shopping, eating, and especially LAUGHING! To surprise my mother for her birthday, we met for a weekend retreat. It's safe to say she had no idea, so watching her face light up was something I'll never forget! We enjoyed dinner with a spectacular view at The Garden, stayed up until midnight laughing and telling stories at the Marriott Residence Inn, then got up early, spending the morning (and some of the afternoon) shopping until we just couldn't take it anymore!

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Here are some pictures of our fabulous evening!
Surprise!!!
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It took us a minute to figure out this was a
baked plantain on Mom's salad.

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Jack and Aiden were very curious about each other!
I was glad Shannon and Nickole
brought them out so we all could play with them!


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Hangin' in our hotel suite, comfy in our pajamas:

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Nothin' says "yum" like
TISHAMINGO TEETH!
We laughed until our sides hurt...
"Truth" (of 'truth or dare', we're all too chicken to choose dare)
and "Spin the Bottle"
gave us some great stories and wonderful chuckles!
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Saturday morning:
We even stopped at Victoria Secret, where
Mom found a "colorful" pair of undies.
Fortunately, we talked her out of buying them
since she already has a pair at home just like them. ;)
------------------------------Three cheers for Tai Pan!
Jack was a great sport with all the shopping,
especially when we donned him with Santa hat.
I couldn't help but laugh to myself as I saw ten women,
five carts, and all the comparisons of everyone's loot.
"Show me what you're buying",
"Oh! That's beautiful! Where are you going to put it?",
"I loooooooove this! I've got to have one for myself.
Where did you find it?"
Hilarious!


Hope Sig1

"The democracy will cease to exist when you TAKE AWAY from those who are willing to work AND GIVE to those who would not."



Thomas Jefferson